Have you ever made a pinky promise? I know I have though I can’t remember the details. I do remember however getting a necklace back in fifth grade from my first boyfriend that symbolized our promise to be boyfriend and girlfriend forever (or until he ruined it!). The necklace was a gold circle that had my name on one side and his name “Brad” on the other. On the “Kristi” side of the necklace there was a small rose arched above my name. I lost that necklace shortly after I got it. I was so embarrassed and upset that my sweet mom took me to Wal-Mart to have it replaced. The only problem was they had a similar necklace, but not one with the gold rose. We had the necklace engraved Kristi and Brad just like the one I had lost. The funny thing is I had to be super careful at school to always make sure the necklace stayed on the Brad side because when it turned to the Kristi side there was no gold rose. Brad could never know I had lost the token of our promise . I didn’t have to do this for long. A couple of weeks later I tripped and fell at school. Not only did Brad laugh the loudest, there was no offer to help me up. That was the end of that. So much for true love.
Hallie and I were shopping at Claire’s recently. They had the cutest friendship jewelry including a monkey and banana necklace pair. Since the beginning of time people have used symbols ranging from handshakes and contracts to represent and qualify promises. Promises to stay friends, keep secrets, pay someone what you owe them and promises to stay committed forever. Though most promises are made with the intention to be kept, they are often broken.
I made a google search on pinky promises. I knew that a pinky promise is made by intertwining pinkies. As your pinkies are joined together you make a promise. It could be a promise to stay friends forever or a promise to never reveal your friend’s secret crush. Originally the punishment for breaking a pinky promise was cutting off your pinky. Wonder if anyone followed through on that. There’s something I need you to catch here girls! A promise is really just a declaration of what you are going to do or what you are not going to do. We break promises everyday. We change our mind. Friends come and go. Our lips slip and we let out that secret we were supposed to keep.
Brad, giver of the gold necklace, ended up being a nice guy. I set him up with my good friend and they are still married to this day. I have friends now that I’m pretty sure I let a secret or two of theirs slip. I’m glad I still have my pinkies. Even when friends disappoint or betray us, God is still faithful. Every page of the bible is full of God’s promises to us. I know this because what He declares, He does. And beyond offering his pinky to show he meant what he said, he gave his very life. And that girls is more than a pinky promise!
Every good and perfect gift is from above, coming down from the Father of the heavenly lights, who does not change like shifting shadows. James 1:17
For I am the Lord; I change not. Malachi 3:6
1.Have you ever broken a promise?
2.How have you felt when a promise made to you has been broken?
3.Are there times when you may not be able to keep your promise?
4.Is there someone we can trust to always do what they say?
5.Is there someone who is unchangeable?